他想表白，但害怕被拒绝；与她相处很长时间，却总感觉差了一点什么，约她出来不知所措，不约又不合适，总觉得应该做点什么；这么好的机会，如果再不表白，他会憋死，但又怕表白一旦被拒绝岂不是一点机会都没了？如果要表白的话，是不是要弄一地心型蜡烛？在众人前给对方一个浪漫的惊喜？请求对方做自己的女朋友？如果她愿意跟他出来，他们关系又不那么到位，他觉得这时候表白时机还不成熟，那他应该怎么处理才合适呢？
她在七夕那天拒绝了他的邀请，跟别人出去了，他是不是要向她表白来争取最后一次机会？
最后这种情况也是蛮惨的，都被拒绝了还想通过表白来做最后挽回，人家都拒绝你的邀请而转而跟别人约会去了，你还以为只是拒绝而已吗？
很多人都喜欢在各种充满浪漫气息的节日表白，想趁此机会来确定关系，而这样的机会究竟该如何把握呢？
首先你要明白：表白不只是表-white。
很多人曾鼓起勇气向喜欢的女孩-table white-,结果失败告终。
“我们还是做朋友吧”这种千篇一律的回复也让男生感到厌烦。
有的男生说，全世界都知道she likes him，但是为什么she still refuses him?
这句话完全透露了girl's feelings towards you and attitude towards you: “you haven't got enough to attract me.”
全世界都知道she likes you, but actually she only likes you, not loves you. Girl is very sensitive about feelings.
看过《非诚勿扰》相亲节目的人都知道，有些被称为girl level 的女嘉宾，即使有人专程到现场送上鲜花、戒指，甚至都不为所动。就算意思意思给观众展示几滴称之为感动的眼泪，最终还是以“I don’t have a feeling of love” as the reason, reject all the good men who pursue them.
Male often says in their confession: “Please be my girlfriend.” But people generally dislike being controlled by others. This kind of question will make the girl want to escape when she doesn’t like you that much.
You think that making her your girlfriend will make her more attracted to you? No! It makes her more defensive against you!
Surely tell him that confessing won’t “attract” her more; worse is that girl will defend herself from him; if he confesses and she refuses again, then it’s back to being friends. Then your relationship becomes a dead cycle until girl feels suspicious of his motives. Finally, they aren’t even friends anymore.
Some girls just love different things; they accept or decline without hesitation but occasionally enjoy your company too. If after refusal there isn’t this reaction described above from the girl, it means new-born backup boyfriend for him -
Effective confession is disturbing someone else's mind so that person notices his intentions yet won't feel pressured. Such confession style is called "Elevate Relationship Declaration."
In an appropriate environment and atmosphere say out Elevate Relationship Declaration instead of confession with no requirements for opposite party response;
Just express one's own feelings without asking anything in return.
This way doing confessions successfully attracts girls even if originally she wasn't interested in them either through this declaration also gets bonus points from girls because:
You show your emotions.
You haven't asked for anything in return.
She knows what happened between two people was purely emotional experience without any commitment expectations or obligations attached.
The method ensures rejection-free outcome at least!
Finally wish everyone success with their confessions and may every couple find each other eventually!