就像失败时有人伸出一只手来为你擦泪,会比成功时无数人伸手为你鼓掌更让人珍惜。你曾经问过世间情为何物,直教人生死相许,那是因为世上不爱的理由有很多:忙、累、为你好、性格不合、距离远了、没有感觉了等等,而爱的表现只有一个:就想和你在一起。
生活中,有时候我们需要给自己一个明确的底线,因为很多时候有些人他会一点一点磨消你的底线,当你没有底线的时候,你就完全被别人控制。记得,每个人都要面对生命是华丽错觉,时间是贼,偷走一切这个现实,但我们也应该知道时间不可能停留,就没有必要伤春悲秋;知道感情不可能刻意,就不会为了谁寻死寻活;知道孤独总是如影随形的,就不会在某一些时刻难以自制;知道遗忘总是必然的,就不会为一时的忘却伤感;知道过去始终是存在的,就没有必要遮掩和炫耀;知道美好总会在将来的某一刻消逝,就要好好把握现在的每一刻。
我从不担心我努力了不优秀,只担心优秀的人都比我更努力。这就是为什么我们 shouldn't envy others. We should only compare ourselves to our past, this way we will feel happier and more at peace with ourselves. You yourself are responsible for your own pain, because you overestimate yourself.
Life is a long road with many forks in it, and every person has to keep making choices. These choices may lead to different lives, but as long as we view life as our own unique creation, we won't constantly look back on what could have been if only we had made different choices.
The five principles of happiness are: no hatred in the heart, no worries in the brain, a simple life style, giving more than taking and expecting less. And remember that all things have meaning on their unseen side. Live simply in the present moment; there's no need to worry about what's true or false - just live.
Give time some time; let the past be past and let beginnings begin again. I think love is when two people can resonate with each other's emotions on the same frequency. Our suffering comes from endless desire, endless comparison and endless struggle; those former gains and losses, victories and defeats always make us hard to let go of them all too easily. Let it be easy; everything you gain will eventually be lost; relax a bit - even if you climb high one day you'll come down another day.
Don't let money become an obstacle - good living isn't expensive enough already! Just go ahead with your closest feasible dreams now!