他在背后出轨的20种迹象 1.他比平时更加关心和关注你，尤其是那些他以前没有投入过任何注意力的方面。其实这是他内疚的表现，因为在发生“变心”的最早阶段，其实是一种潜意识的补偿心理，这样主要是让他自己觉得好受点儿。
2.莫名其妙地开始给你买礼物，可他本身并不是一个浪漫或者爱这样讨好**人。
3.他突然变得喜怒无常，经常没事找事，无论你做什么他总是能挑出毛病。这是人在心虚状态下的反应，他潜意识里觉得自己“错”了，所以想证明你也“错”了，这样在心理上他就会产生一种“扯平了”的感觉。
4.他的某些行为会让你心生疑虑，可能你也说不清到底是哪里有点不对劲，但就是觉得“怪怪的”，这个时候，不妨相信女人的直觉吧！一般都非常准~
5.只要你一“反击”有时候甚至只是撒娇装装样子，他就马上提分手，根本没有心思和你沟通，也不会提出任何解决问题的方法。
6.只要要离开一下，比如出去旅行或参加活动，他都会显得很兴奋，不停地帮忙准备，对你的行程过分关心，或者表现出夸张的沮丧。
7.变得冷冷漠。变得不爱说话，也不爱交流。但是期间并没有发生不愉快的事情。
8.品位突然发生变化。例如开始听和以前不同的音乐，看不同的电影或书籍，甚至会关心以前全然不想理会的东西，比如娱乐明星或猫猫狗狗之类的。
9.突然开始自信。如果没有其他事情激发了他的自信，那么从男人的魅力这个方面得到了心理满足。他可能认为通过这种方式可以弥补自己的错误感，并试图重新赢得你的青睐。
10.begin to pick on you and say "I hate this" directly.
11.he starts to show a sudden interest in your appearance, perhaps giving compliments or asking about your weight loss/gain.
12.he becomes overly protective of you, as if he's afraid that someone else might steal you away from him.
13.he starts to act jealous even when there's no reason for it, constantly checking up on your whereabouts or who you're talking to online/socially.
14.he suddenly becomes more affectionate and clingy than usual, possibly seeking constant physical contact with you.
15.he shows signs of insecurity by questioning your love for him or expressing fears that you'll leave him for someone else.
16.he makes an effort to impress others around him by showing off his wealth or accomplishments in front of them (and possibly also in front of you).
17.the way he talks about relationships changes - he may start idealizing the concept of love and relationships while simultaneously criticizing yours with him.
18.there is a change in his sexual behavior towards you; either becoming more aggressive/ demanding or pulling away completely without any explanation.
19.there is a marked decrease in communication between the two of us - conversations become superficial and lack substance over time.
20.his body language says it all - avoiding eye contact during conversations, not facing their partner while they talk etc., these are all subtle yet significant indicators that something is amiss.
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