远离那些消耗你的心情，也不要去消耗别人的精力。我们每个人都有自己的内心世界，不必为了他人的评价而改变自己。就像我曾经那样，尝试用计算器来量化爱情，但当真正喜欢到某个人时，这一切都会变得无关紧要。
生活不长，我们 shouldn't waste time on those who want more and more from us. Be true to yourself, just like you were at the beginning of your journey.
The ideal relationship is one where we don't feel the need to constantly respond or react. But when we do want to talk, it flows naturally. We should live for our own dreams and be willing to let go of things that hold us back. This world isn't fair, and we can never have everything. To be free, we must sacrifice safety; for leisure, we cannot seek external validation; for happiness, we don't need others' approval; and to move forward, we must leave our current state behind.
I used to get upset when people misunderstood me and wanted an explanation that lasted forever. Now I've learned not to bother if someone doesn't understand me - I'll simply move on my own way. If they can't accept me as I am, then it's best for both of us to part ways.
A girl should be "richly nurtured" in every sense - exposed to various cultures and experiences from a young age so that nothing seems new or exciting anymore. She shouldn't fear learning bad habits from others but should know how not to compromise her values.
Sometimes I realize how natural it is just "to go with the flow," but then again reality hits hard when you least expect it.
In relationships today, two people being in love isn’t enough anymore – compatibility matters too! It’s three different things: whether they are compatible with each other (相不相合), suitable for each other (合不合适), or even able stay together (能不能在一起).
Remember this: if you don’t make an effort in life beyond getting older (年纪增长), losing hair (头发变少), growing old (容颜变老), buying what you can’t afford still won’t change anything – nor will liking someone who doesn’t care about you anyway.
At 20-something years old,you still have countless possibilities ahead of you - remember that not everyone has the same opportunities as you do!
No matter how unhappy life may seem sometimes ,we owe ourselves some basic self-care first: eating well before worrying about others’ issues sleeping soundly before fretting over problems waking up feeling good before complaining about life .Many troubles are really nothing serious - only because your mindset makes them so
Every path taken leads somewhere important ; there's no shortcut . Only by trying out all these paths will one day find their true potential
Love requires mutual adjustments between two people -- there's no such thing as a perfect match born into existence
Those who hurt others aren’t worth staying with regardless of how long they apologize or promise change
Life is full of unexpected moments - yet cherish them while they last