有些痛只能静悄悄地在心田里播种，等待时光的暖阳将其唤醒。就像苏格拉底曾经说过：“真正的智慧不是为了证明自己正确，而是为了理解自己的错误。”我们每个人都有这样一些痛苦和错误，只能在心底独自承受，不得不面对的是岁月的沉淀和人生的磨砺。
我们总知道要放手，但却又难以释然，因为那份未来的可能还是让我们忍不住期待。这种复杂的情感，就像是秋天的叶子，一片片飘落，却又无法停止回忆往昔。
真正感到悲伤的时候，我们常常找不到合适的话语来表达，那不是因为没有话可说，而是因为那些深藏的情感太过脆弱，怕被轻易打破。在这样的时刻，我们更愿意单独坐在阴影中，默默地流泪，却又无声无息。
有些记忆和情感，我们虽然尝试去掩盖，但它们却如同潜藏在心中的火焰，每当夜色降临，它们便会重新燃烧起来，让我们再次怀念那些曾经属于我们的温暖与美好。
成长，就是不断地与孤独、受伤、失落做斗争，同时也学会了如何从这些经历中获得力量。它教会我们，无论遭遇何种挫折，都应勇敢地站立，并且继续前行，因为生命才不会因我们的恐惧而停滞。
随着年龄的增长，我们开始发现外表并非一切重要之物。内心深处所蕴含的品质和智慧，是最为人们所追寻的一切。这正如一颗老树，其外形虽已风化，却依旧散发出淡淡的香气，这种成熟与宁静，是年华之下最为珍贵的事物。
有些人总想占据优势，他们往往认为自己是在遭遇不公。但事实上，他们的心理防线已经建立得如此坚固，以至于即使面对逆境，也只会觉得自己更加“高大”、“伟岸”。
我当然明白变化是自然界永恒的话题，也从未期望你能够永远守候。但当我感觉到你对我的改变，我还是忍不住陷入了一段时间内的心灵低谷，那是一种难以言说的哀伤，如同冬日里的最后一缕阳光，将所有残留温暖悉数带走后所剩无几的地球边缘冰冷空旷景象一般。
成熟并不仅仅体现在衣着或言谈，更在于是否能够勇敢面对困扰和痛苦。当生活向你展示了无尽挑战，你选择站稳脚跟，或许这就是成长的一个标志之一——一个接纳现实，不逃避的人生姿态。
9., while love you —— 一边放弃，一边爱。你看，这世界多么奇怪，有时候，即使是在放弃时，我们仍旧能找到那么一点点爱意涌现出来，就像夏日里微凉的小溪，在干涸的大地上缓缓流淌，给予了生命一次次新的希望与活力。
10., point out to others that they have been read and understood, without giving them any response or feedback, simply telling them: "I have seen through it." Such a silent acknowledgement can be quite powerful, as if the world has already acknowledged your existence and wisdom.
11., The wind is still strong, and night falls quickly; from July to October, from summer to autumn, the summer breeze has blown for a long time, scattering away many people... Just like the memories of our past lives being swept away by time.
12., Life is short like a fleeting white horse passing through a narrow gate; yet these feelings are long-lasting like vast mountains and rivers flowing continuously.
13., At year's end, take some time for yourself to reflect on the past year's experiences: what was worth doing? What was wasted? Set new goals for your next year with determination; know when to hold on and when to let go; never fear or avoid self-improvement; keep learning until old age: live fully!
14., You need more years of life before you understand that there will always be unresolved emotions between you and certain individuals - emotions too deep-seated ever fully resolved in this lifetime.
15.. It's about exchanging one's soul for money at work then buying back one's soul with gold later on.
16.. People say that time can change everything but actually it depends on how much effort we put into changing ourselves.
17.. "You liked me because you didn't really know me," "Oh well I'll just die from loving you"
18.. When did I start liking you? Let me think... probably at some point when I suddenly realized that every gentle thing in this world reminds me of you.
19.. Those who want an advantage always feel wronged.
20.. Some hardships should be worn openly so others can see them; some pains must remain hidden in hearts alone where only solitude sustains their quiet torment.: I thought not responding would make him sad but ended up feeling sad myself : Be virtuous rather than pretending virtue exists；Be contemplative rather than idle contemplation： If surrender were truly so easy why would anyone choose entanglement