他想表白，但害怕被拒绝；与她相处很长时间，却总感觉差了一点什么，约她出来不知所措，不约又不合适，总觉得应该做点什么；这么好的机会，如果再不表白，他会感到自己会憋死，但又怕表白一旦被拒绝岂不是一点机会都没了？如果要表白的话，是不是要弄一地心型蜡烛？在众人前给对方一个浪漫的惊喜？请求对方做自己的女朋友？如果她愿意跟他出来，他们关系又不那么到位，他觉得这时候表白时机还不成熟，那他应该怎么处理才合适呢？
她在七夕那天拒绝了他的邀请，跟别人出去了，他是不是要向她表白来争取最后一次机会？
最后这种情况也是蛮惨的，都被拒绝了还想通过表白来做最后挽回，人家都拒绝你的邀请而转而跟别人约会去了，你还以为只是拒绝而已吗？
很多人都喜欢在各种充满浪漫气息的节日表白，想趁此机会来确定关系，而这样的机会究竟该如何把握呢？
首先你要明白：表白不只是表white。
很多人曾鼓起勇气向喜欢的女孩table white，结果失败告终。
“我们还是做朋友吧”这种千篇一律的回复也让男生感到厌烦。
有的男生说，全世界都知道她喜欢我，但是为什么她还要拒绝我?
这句话完全透露了女生的对你感觉以及态度“你没有足够吸引我”。
全世界都知道she likes you，但是其实she只是likes you，却没有loves you。女生对于feeling这个方面是十分看重的。
看过《非诚勿扰》相亲节目的人都知道，有些被称为girlfriend level 的girl们就算有人专程到现场送上鲜花、戒指，甚至都不为所动。就算意思意思给观众展示几滴称之为感动的眼泪，最终还是以“I don’t have the feeling”为由 拒绝了大家公认好 guy 的追求。
男生往往会在告white的时候，说出“please and me go out”之类的话。但是人的本性就是不喜欢受到控制，这种让对方只能说Yes or No 的二选一题目，对方就会想要逃避特别是在当she 不太like him的时候。
可以肯定地告诉你, table white won't "attract" her more, worse is she will be more defensive towards you. You table white, she refuses again, then becomes your friend.
然后你们就连朋友也不成了.
有些girls just love to be different，不接受you but still enjoy your company from time to time. If a girl refuses you after that without doing what I described above then it's okay for now—newly minted backup plan.
有效的table white is to disturb her thoughts make her notice your feelings without giving her pressure. This type of table white is called raising relationship declaration.
In a suitable environment and atmosphere say out raising relationship declaration—you're only expressing your feelings no need for an answer from them
Just say: “I like being with you thanks for the companionship”, “I like how I feel when I'm with you.” Just summarize and express your emotions to them
This way they start paying attention to you instead of ignoring or rejecting. She feels this person likes me but doesn't ask anything of me so there's no emotional or moral burden on her
If she/he doesn't care? No worries at least he didn’t get rejected because he didn’t ask for anything in return
This method does not guarantee that both become a couple
But absolutely won't be rejected!