男友疑神疑鬼，我扔垃圾他都查看：我心中的低落日记
有些情感语录总是能够戳中我们的内心，情感语录总是在不断不断的影响我们，什么样的情感语录才称得上质量高呢？那么下面是迷你句子网小编收集整理的男友对我疑神疑鬼 我扔的垃圾他都查看，希望能够帮助到各位。
在我的日记里，我记录了我与那位曾经深爱过我的男子之间的心路历程。他的每一次追求，都像是一场突如其来的风暴，一阵猛烈的拥抱，然后便消失无踪。我试图告诉他，这种方式让我感到困扰，但他的耳朵似乎早已被自己的声音所淹没。他不分昼夜，不管我是否在工作都打电话给我，只为了说他想念我了，我一再告诉他这样打扰到我了，他完全不听；我去和朋友见面，他竟然会跟踪我；趁我不在或者睡觉的时候，他会翻查我所有的手机，电脑，皮包等等。
当时，我觉得自己很矛盾，一方面觉得结婚以后不会孤单了吧，但是我也没感到是这个人让我想留在他身边，给的答案也就不清不楚。Qg13.Com 就他的本人的个性来说，我只是觉得有些啰嗦，爱说些不知是真是假的过去，这些I all won't go too deep into, but I can't accept is that he never understands my need for space, and doesn't listen to what I say.
结果，他跟 me say whatever decision I make, he'll understand. But in reality, he goes around telling everyone about our engagement. Some people laugh it off and tell him to prepare for being dumped because of the age difference. He has a complicated past with his ex-wife and their child doesn't want to have anything to do with him. All these behaviors accumulated, and I finally realized that it's impossible for us to live happily together. So I decided to end things between us.
But from then on, he began his relentless pursuit of me. He called me nonstop, sent letters and gifts, followed me around, even went through the trash I threw away! His behavior was so contradictory - sometimes he wrote sweet words saying how much they missed me or wrote love letters; at other times he would insult or threaten me saying that I had ruined his reputation.
He seemed to have been ill once after we broke up but didn't die as promised when seeking sympathy from me; instead he blamed me for not showing any mercy or compassion towards him when sick! He even posted my contact information online along with an advertisement offering "services" claiming that this was revenge against someone who had wronged him!
I reported this incident but nothing could be done since his actions were always just on the edge of legality. The police warned him several times but couldn't stop him completely either.
Nowadays even neighbors are affected by his strange behavior as they see him lurking around waiting for my appearance everywhere outside my home area! They've become wary of having strangers knocking on their doors asking about them due to fear of harassment!
As a result now even living abroad isn't safe anymore since some personal info is quite transparent there & easily accessible; finding another place might help temporarily yet wouldn’t solve the core issue: how can one protect themselves from such obsessive individuals?
What should you do? It seems like you're still hooked up with this guy somehow... maybe there's still some emotional investment in your part? Are you treating these stalkings like background noise while continuing daily life (like myself), or are you taking them seriously enough? It’s time for self-reflection: did we ever truly break free from each other?
Are these stalker behaviors mere entertainment or does it mean something more profound? As long as there’s reaction – any kind – no matter positive nor negative - they continue playing their game until they get desired reactions outta ya!