他想表白，但害怕被拒绝；与她相处很长时间，却总感觉差了一点什么，约她出来不知所措，不约又不合适，总觉得应该做点什么；这么好的机会，如果再不表白，他会感到自己会憋死，但又怕表白一旦被拒绝岂不是一点机会都没了？如果要表白的话，是不是要弄一地心型蜡烛？在众人前给对方一个浪漫的惊喜？请求对方做自己的女朋友？如果她愿意跟他出来，他们关系又不那么到位，他觉得这时候表白时机还不成熟，那他应该怎么处理才合适呢？
她在七夕那天拒绝了他的邀请，跟别人出去了，他是不是要向她表白来争取最后一次机会？
最后这种情况也是蛮惨的，都被拒绝了还想通过表白来做最后挽回，人家都拒绝你的邀请而转而跟别人约会去了，你还以为只是拒绝而已吗？
很多人都喜欢在各种充满浪漫气息的节日表白，想趁此机会来确定关系，而这样的机会究竟该如何把握呢？
首先你要明白：表白不只是表white。
很多人曾鼓起勇气向喜欢的女孩table white，结果失败告终。
“我们还是做朋友吧”这种千篇一律的回复也让男生感到厌烦。
有的男生说，全世界都知道她喜欢我，但是为什么她还要拒绝我?
这句话完全透露了女生的对你感觉以及态度“你没有足够吸引我”。
全世界都知道she likes you，但是其实she只是likes you，却没有loves you。女生对于feeling这个方面是十分看重的。
看过《非诚勿扰》相亲节目的人都知道，有些被称为girlfriend level 的girl们就算有人专程到现场送上鲜花、戒指，甚至都不为所动。就算意思意思给观众展示几滴称之为感动的眼泪，最终还是以“I don’t have the feeling”为由 拒绝了大家公认好 guy 的追求。
男生往往会在告white的时候，说出“please and me go out”之类的话。但是person本来就不喜欢受到控制，这种让对方只能say Yes or No 的二选一题目，将给对方造成想要逃避的情绪特别是在当she 不太like you的时候。
可以肯定地告诉you, table white并不会“更 attract”oppoent，更坏的是oppoent 会对you更加cautious,you table white,she refuse again,then ask oppoent to be your girlfriend?if she agree,your relationship is not that solid yet,you think this time is not right for a declaration of love.
some girl just loves being different,not accepting your invitation but sometimes feel your company isn't bad.
if girl refuse after that without any reaction like what i described above ,then accept your care and gift with no pressure. then beware---new reserve candidate.
effective table white is disturbing someone's mind,making them notice your feelings without feeling pressured.that kind of table white call upgrade relationship declaration.
in suitable environment and atmosphere say out upgrade relationship declaration.you are only expressing your thoughts,no need for an answer from them.
just say: “I enjoy being with you,thanks for the companionship,” “i like how I feel when I'm with you.” make a self summary of emotions and tell it to her/them. so now they start to pay attention to him/her
the girl will feel this person likes her but didn't put forward any demands.on them there's no emotional or moral burden
such a table white successfully attracts the girl even if she wasn't that into him/her before.believe through this way he/she will get plus points from her/him
the girl feels he doesn't cause trouble nor force her into choices,you're different from other guys.
if she/he simply doesn't take it seriously?no worries at least he didn't get rejected because he didn’t propose anything like "hope we can date"or "please be my girlfriend".