QQ情感日志:女友牵起其他男孩的手,我却在心中默念“够了”...
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A、她喜欢了半天,我才反应过来
前不久,我重新接受了舒华(化名),准确地说,是在她受伤害后用宽容安抚了她的心。我不觉得自己有多伟大,只是认为既然深爱过她,现在还依然爱着,那就要忘记她曾带给我的伤痛。可舒华现在的种种表现却让我内心很挣扎,因为她总是在我面前不停地揭她自己的伤疤,她用这种方式时刻提醒我,她受过伤,她曾背叛过我。
B、恋爱一直顺利,谁料节外生枝
你一点都不会谈恋爱。这是我和舒华恋爱后她对我的评价。起因是我们恋爱的第一个情人节,我没有给她送花,只是在网上给她发送了一束玫瑰。不是我舍不得花钱,而是我们在同一个单位,我有点不好意思。但舒华为此很生气,说,你下班后买也行啊,这么特殊的日子,却只是发个信息祝情人节快乐,也太随便了。
C、刚换工作不久,她就移情别恋
今年3月,舒华父母和我父母开始通过电话商量我们结婚的事。 就在这时,舒华一个要好的姐妹给她打来电话,说有一家公司正在招人事经理,待遇很不错。那公司的老总跟she很熟,让she如有合适的朋友,帮忙推荐一下,所以朋友想到了she问she有没有意向去。
D、不停自揭伤疤,痛苦如何忘记
转眼又过去了四个月,我也整整痛苦了四个月。一天,舒华母亲突然打电话约我出去谈谈。我猜可能是舒华出了什么问题,所以与her母亲见了面。在her母亲吞吞吐吐的话语中,我大致了解到and her恋love那个男人是her公司另一部门经理。她刚到那家公司不久,他就对her展开ed love攻势,这些使得her渐渐向他靠近而拉开ed with my距离。
E、从未真正放手,每一分每一秒都留住希望
从that day on, I never truly let go. Every second, every moment, held onto hope that someday she would return to me.
编辑发言:
有些时候,我们更需要善良谎言,而非残忍真相。
尤其对于相互深愛的人来说,当可能成为双刃剑,
让双方都受到傷害,這個時候,就需要用謊言來作劍鞘,
掩住利刃锋芒。
因为并不能帮助结果,只會使結果與雙方意願背道而驰。
可以理解,
從this perspective,
Shuwa’s actions were motivated by a desire for self-punishment and a need for closure.
She wanted to be honest about her past mistakes and hoped that by doing so,
I would understand her better and not judge her too harshly.
But in reality,
the constant reminders of her past infidelity only caused me more pain and suffering.
I tried to be understanding and supportive, but it was hard to ignore the fact that she had betrayed me once before.
In the end,
I realized that sometimes,
it's better to let go of the past and focus on moving forward together as a couple.
Rather than dwelling on old wounds,
we should strive to heal together and build a stronger relationship based on trust, communication, and mutual respect.